Danielle describes her son Elliott’s time at Fiveways as being the single most important factor in his life outside his family. Danielle had been Elliott’s voice for six years until he had unlocked his ability to communicate with the meticulous and loving support he received from this brilliant school.
“I am sure that if he had attended a different school he wouldn’t be the child he is today. He learned how to be happy, calm, how to speak and he made important relationships; he learned how to trust.”
When Kirstie first shared her Valuing SEND work with Danielle and explained that she felt Elliott could thrive in a different school, Danielle was shell shocked. She valued Elliott’s happiness and the stability of his schooling so much and it felt the rug was being pulled from beneath her.
“My first thought was no, no, no, no, no. This is not happening. It took me a long time to shift from seeing this as a negative to something good. Over time through talking to family, friends and the staff at Fiveways I began to see that this was, in fact, something to be proud of. He had outgrown the curriculum at Fiveways and they knew him well enough to identify that he could achieve more elsewhere.”
Kirstie and Danielle worked together to help Elliott understand the reasons for his change of school; they wrote a social story for him and Danielle organised a visit to the school in addition to the planned transition day. Throughout the process Danielle says Kirstie was patient, comforting and encouraging.